🧡 Friendsgiving: A New(ish) Tradition Rooted in Connection

A Short History of Friendsgiving

Though it feels timeless now, Friendsgiving is actually a fairly new tradition. The term first appeared in the early 2000s, born from the simple idea of gathering friends for a Thanksgiving-style meal when family might be far away (or schedules too full). What started as a casual potluck among friends in small apartments and shared homes has become one of the most heartfelt holidays of the year — one centered entirely on chosen family.

It’s not about the perfect turkey or matching dishes. It’s about connection — a long table filled with laughter, mismatched chairs, shared stories, and the kind of warmth that comes only from gathering the people who make you feel most at home.


Why We Love It

At Quincy & Coco, we’ve always believed that the most meaningful moments happen around a table. Friendsgiving captures that spirit beautifully — it’s a celebration of gratitude, creativity, and community.

There’s no pressure for perfection here. It’s a space for real life — where the store-bought pie sits proudly next to the homemade casserole, where friends linger late into the night, and where candlelight and conversation take center stage.

In many ways, Friendsgiving feels like the heart of the season — a moment to slow down, say thank you, and celebrate how friendship fills our lives with color and story.


Simple Ways Make Your Friendsgiving Even More Special

While Friendsgiving doesn’t need much more than good friends and a full table, a few thoughtful details can make it feel extra special — and easy.

  • Layer Your Table with Conversational Pieces: Pick and choose from what you have, borrow, or buy one or two new special, seasonal pieces for your tablescape. We guarantee your guests will "ooo" and "ahhhh" and feel that extra effort you put in for them.
  • Set a Candlelit Mood: Mix marble or glass candleholders with taper candles for a cozy glow that makes even take-out feel like a feast.
  • Add a Creative Touch: Put out conversation cards, or a "Thankful Prayer", or a special treat like a piece of chocolate, anything that is easy, yet unexpected. 

Most of all, embrace the beautiful imperfection of it all. Because when it comes to Friendsgiving, the only thing that truly matters is the gathering itself.


From Our Table to Yours

Whether you’re hosting a crowd or keeping it simple, we hope this season brings you moments of connection and creativity — the kind that fill your home (and your heart) long after the dishes are done.

Happy Friendsgiving, from all of us at Quincy & Coco.

Friendsgiving tablescape
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